Truth & the Path & My RETURN!

I took some time off to do some massive healing myself and work on parts of myself that had become emotionally dense, angry, sour and lost of hope. I have finally come through this stronger than ever, solid and ready to do the work that sets me apart, maybe even what I was born and trained to do.

I am going to start back up my online energy healing work, quantum connective medicine. I will be doing these sessions by zoom, these sessions can help where other things have not, they can charge up, bring information unknown in the mix, plug into new spaces, unplug the old reruns that keep us making the same choices, and having the same health responses and more.

I was born into the bloodlines of people genetically altered to do this kind of work and also studied with native medicine and shaman people along the journey of my life in the energy medicine arts. I had to back way off from doing these kinds of sessions since 2003. I hope I have finally moved through the darkest section of my life. I do not have all the answers but in this work, we find them together.

I went through a period starting in 2007 when I was doing energy healing sessions and the only thing that was coming through in people were these future lives and I had no idea what to do with this information and I was horrified by what I was seeing, it made it harder to help people. The truth is not always good, the truth is sometimes hard to swallow, the truth sometimes brings you to your knees into the gutter where you cannot pull yourself out. You have to just be there.

Energy Medicine work requires dealing with the darkness, the light, and all the shades of grey in between, and in order for me to get it right, do it in a good way I have to travel to places that kill me, kill my beliefs, kill my mind, kill my heart, kill my soul in order to adapt to see the truth without the set of beliefs I learned here in this world to dictate, filter and change the truth into an acceptable pill to swallow every day.

A few nights ago the good spirits gave me what I am calling an otherworldly atomic blast. This blast happened in this dream and woke me up as it continued while awake. As the days after I can feel that everything in me, in this life, cleared in one big blow. Lifting me back up on my own two feet it is time to move forward and bring in the consciousness needed to maneuver out of the dark ages on this planet for one and for all, for all living things.

Blessings, Peace, and Truth, Bridgette

Remember that Jesus said in the bible: “Continue to work out your own salvation with FEAR and TREMBLING!”

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In order to keep us obedient and meek and weak, the predators engaged themselves in a stupendous maneuver – stupendous, of course, from the point of view of a fighting strategist. A horrendous maneuver from the point of view of those who suffer it. They gave us their mind!Through the mind, which, after all, is their mind, the predators inject into the lives of human beings whatever is convenient for them.” Don Juan Matus

 

We have to understand here that the true Negative Realm agenda is to “eat consciousness.” So, this actually prevents an overt “take-over” in literal, physical terms. If an “invasion” was detected, this would mean that the veil would be lifted and all would see the “man behind the curtain” and would be disgusted and turn away. Just as in the “Wizard of Oz,” those Ruby Slippers have to be obtained VERY CAREFULLY!

Gathering the essence is an art of great subtlety! The “negative alien plan” is, in its purest sense, STALKING. The aim of Stalking is to create a completely controlled artificial environment composed of thoroughly predictable human behaviors – made predictable because they have been programmed to respond to cues of conditioning.

For centuries these programming signals have been being set up – either because of time travel capabilities or because of actual historical presence. Various prophets or religious leaders have been influenced to preach or teach or prophesy philosophies designed to lay a foundation for later take-over – possibly in our present time.

A lot of people think that the “alien invasion scenario” is a ruse concocted by the government to create the impression that there is a forming “threat,” thereby enabling the institution of a New World Order. But, this idea is based on a misrepresentation of the process just described.

The important thing to remember is this: there is NOT a “unified conspiratorial activity” going on here in the hierarchy of government. The “divide and conquer” effect is also manifest at this level and suits the alien purposes to a “T.Such activity at ALL levels is consistent with their program of STALKING, in which confusion and cross-purpose prevents a clear perception on the part of the Stalkees. Yet, at some deep level, there may be a direct conspiratorial interaction between the “secret government” and the negative aliens… but it is unlikely that any name of those involved would be recognized by anyone, no matter how “in the know” regarding the subject. These “secret superiors” are just that: SECRET. Any organization you can name, or about which you are AWARE, are merely “outer circles.

What is the designed objective of this STALKING?
The effect of Stalking is sort of like stampeding a herd of cattle. Bit by bit, they are consolidated into a “negative mode” which consists of the idea of “us vs them.” Even though, on the surface, it may seem that this “mode” is positive or STO (Service to Others), (i.e. save the world because it is “wrong” or flawed, or blighted with original sin or whatever) the very fact that it is formed in the “dominator” mode of perceiving salvation “outside,” means that it can more easily be “taken over” body, mind, and soul at a level that is “unseen and unseeable.” In other words: Satan CAN and most often DOES appear as an Angel of Light!

It is in this understanding that we find our way out of the trap. It isn’t easy, but it is away. The primary object of Negative stalking is to persuade through strongly influenced, but not robotic, behavior patterns, the Free Choice of the targeted CONSCIOUSNESS to align with negative higher-density existence. Because, in the Long Run, the object is the “eating” of functioning units of consciousness by the negative hierarchy, with Free Will intact! It is not good food otherwise!” Michael Topper

The more important someone attaches to a determination of her identity, the more she divides herself from the unbounded reality of wholeness. A narrowing attachment to identity creates strife not just within an individual, but in society at large. In his book ‘Identity and Violence’, Amartya Sen argues that the more narrowly people ‘identify’ themselves by race, gender, status, religion, heritage or nationality, the more prone they will be to committing violence.
That makes sense when we understand ‘objective’ identifications as top-down phenomena: ideas about how one should be are imposed onto the self. This is already a form of violence in which idea dominates and silences being. When someone adopts a categorical standard for how a human should be, it becomes all too easy to turn that violence against others – even friends, neighbors or family members. I believe that the most dangerous people are those who feel their ideas about the Present more keenly than they feel the Present itself.” Philip Shepherd

Insecurity and anxiety also motivate us to form and join groups. Being a part of a group relieves us of anxiety because it makes us feel like we are not the only ones who feel insecure about a particular thing. We often form groups with individuals who have similar insecurities. Having similar [unconscious] insecurities cause us to have similar desires from the perspective of the internal conflict model…Thus, the more insecure and anxious we are, the more motivated we are to form and maintain our own groups.” Toru Sato, 

When someone openly regards their own systems of thought as monumentally important, they are divulging a deep crack in their own core. An inner struggle is being played out publicly. Still, they insist that they are altruistically devoted to just getting the information out, serving as a conduit for sacred knowledge, helping the global awakening, serving the planetary spirit. Or some shit like that.
Many people put an artificial sealing over their work and research, getting stuck in a tunnel vision of topics they keep focusing on, trying to explain everything through it instead of being truly open-minded and looking at the many other angles of our multifaceted reality. Don’t attach yourself to anything you can’t honorably walk away from. Keep free and flexible. Have the courage to discriminate. Learn to know when you are hearing dogma. Know when you are hearing the shriek of the ego.

The power in you is your uniqueness and individuality. How you see and move in the world is a precious bequest to the divine source from where you came and where you go back to. If you walk around any city, you will see people choosing not to control themselves and therefore they become followers, not independent, not individuals, not pioneers, not explorers. It’s an anti-human way to follow. The biggest threat the establishment has is individuality, people who think for themselves, people who say: no more of this group mentality. I don’t care what they are following. It could be the best yoga, the best spiritual guru, it could be beautiful ancient Hindu, german or french texts, whatever. I don’t care. If you are following, you are doing it wrong. The only path is the path of the Individual. That’s what it is all about and what you are here for.

There is an esoteric axiom, all untrue things eventually destroy themselves. Empire, as long as “I” get out of the way, is burning itself out and it’s a natural power of the evolutionary process. In mystical studies, you’ll find that this has happened before. It has happened periodically over millions of years, not thousands, but millions of years.
And the message is always, look humans, you are super powerful. It’s the divine will, a metaphysical spark of creation within you, call it what you wish. To be here is to grow and explore as an Individual. If we are not doing that, we give that power away, we surrender it, and there are other beings in this world who will gladly take that and do something else with that. And that’s how empire rises.” Neil Kramer

The higher one rises, the farther one is pulled down. Evolution does not move higher and higher, into an ever more heavenly heaven, but deeper and deeper. Each evolutionary cycle closes a little lower, a little nearer to the Center where the supreme High and Low, heaven and earth, will finally meet….The more Light [the seeker] possesses, the more darkness he/she uncovers.” Satprem


“No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell.” Carl Jung


“None can reach heaven who has not passed through hell.” Sri Aurobindo

It is clear that Mind has not been able to change human nature radically. You can go on changing human institutions infinitely and yet the imperfection will break through all your institutions. It must be another power that can not only resist but overcome that downward pull. Even if our ideas reached life in their pure form, they would still be incapable of creating anything other than a military order—or perhaps a holy, comfortable, religious order, but an order all the same, because the Mind can only devise systems and seek to confine everything in them. The reason of man struggling with life becomes either an empiric or a doctrinaire. It seizes upon a bit of truth, one drop of divine illumination, and makes it a universal law; it constantly confuses unity with uniformity.

Even when it is capable of understanding the need for diversity, it is practically incapable of implementing it, because it only knows how to deal with what is invariable and finite, while the world is teeming with an infinite variety. Ideas themselves are partial and insufficient: not only have they a very partial triumph, but if their success were complete, it would still disappoint, because they are not the whole truth of life and therefore cannot securely govern and perfect life. Life escapes from the formulas and systems which our reason labors to impose on it; it proclaims itself too complex, too full of infinite potentialities to be tyrannized over by the arbitrary intellect of man.
The root of the difficulty is this that at the very basis of all our life and existence, internal and external, there is something on which the intellect can never lay a controlling hand, the Absolute, the Infinite.

Behind everything in life, there is an Absolute, which that thing is seeking after in its own way; everything finite is striving to express an infinite which it feels to be its real truth. Moreover, it is not only each class, each type, each tendency in Nature that is thus impelled to strive after its own variation. Thus there is not only an Absolute, an Infinite in itself which governs its own expression in many forms and tendencies but there is also a principle of infinite potentiality and variation quite baffling to the reasoning intelligence; for the reason deals successfully only with the settled and the finite. In man, this difficulty reaches its acme.

For not only is mankind unlimited in potentiality, not only is each of its powers and tendencies seeking after its own absolute in its own way and therefore naturally restless under any rigid control by the reason; but in each man their degrees, methods, combinations vary, each man belongs not only to the common humanity but to the Infinite in himself and is therefore uniqueIt is because this is the reality of our existence that the intellectual reason and the intelligent will cannot deal with life as its sovereign.” Sri Aurobindo

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2021 Spring Energy (Medicine) Cleaning with Bridgette

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Bridgette’s Online Energy Healing Sessions Cover:

Yourself, Home, Animals, Work, Health, Relationships, All Aspects of Reality in the Past, Present & Future and a whole lot more.

Bridgette takes a look in the energy patterns and timelines, helping you to what you do not want to re-create the same in the current time, clean up, unplugging, organizing, restoring and installations of new energetic systems.

Bridgette was trained almost 30 years ago by a Lakota-Sioux Medicine Woman in Energy Arts and Medicine.

Running a Spring Cleaning Energy Session Special for a Package of Three Sessions. these Sessions can all be used by yourself or shared with others. Miraculous things can happen when we health together.

Three Session Price $300. Sessions must be used within Three months after purchase.

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Par’s discoveries from Long Distant Healing on my Radio Show

These Posts PAR sent me over 4 days after his long-distance healing we did live on my radio show…

Please see the record of the radio show, PAR was on the second hour, I did remote healing on him, the first time he ever experienced anything like it…

I imagine co2-snow in water ..making “bubbles rise up.. ..I had a mental “freeing” image of “bubbles rising in fluids from step shaped “ice cubes as a step pyramid two along side each other and orange hue color for my inner eye and release of “energy and well being rising/arising”..

..it was a very refreshing and relieving feeling to stretch my body/shoulders and close my eyes and have this sensation running trhough it!

..recap your own energy now ..thanks for a very interesting moment of healing on your show.

I have a very nice session with a wise healer telling me to “skip all those regrets” ..

..this wise healer also told me the “no sorries in need for this ..just raise your protection when in need”

All day I had ran I very nice “focus on me and my own need (to onw and make me my own self first priority) ..

.. Normally will attack me for “smallest things that is visible/audible” around me “going about work” with her argument it “hurts her ears/self-confidence if she can not manage and control me I would assume ..

..this day was sort of “I will do what ever” since it is really the benefit of me if I service my things..

,.thinking about the nice day and the very interesting session you offered so generously ..and thinking about the interesting affects of the left shoulder already presenting itself..

..then I made that “normal” ..I slipped getting things under control again a “sorry” slipped over my lips ..meant as a “nice gesture” towards the one always looking for moments just like that ..and something more interesting occured ..a strong “almost pain/fencing/fending off/anger feel” arouse strongly in my right upper side chest clearly indicating that sorry need not be.. ..and “go git her done” had made its impression and my sense of putting “excuses and sorries” aside and have some space for me without this “tip toeing”..

.quite very “physical oriented guiding direction innersource shape scape” and well in line with a lot of the sacred wise guiding you gifted me so generously (and intelligently) with just a short day previous..

..in one level your wisdom to connect to something in me physically was quite “the thing” and from there I bet also the mental structure of your “treating it” while talking to me was a central (at minimum) aid in getting my attention towards it ..and if the cure was the mental-pshycological connection of the meta-aspects of “finding/treating” still leaves the aspect of your wisdom clearly obvious for me ..your word “I (bridgette) would always outperform a machine” was in a way quite telling just even the more so from you allowing me to experience it..

..how you fixed my shoulder really beats me.. ..I bow myself in awe!

..I attribute these “new behavioral traits” towards this interesting session from being on your radio show late Saturday (USA) Sunday night (Norway).

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Bridgette Lyn Dolgoff is a Traditional Osteopath with almost 30 years of experience and continued education. She specializes in Structural & Energy Medicine, Nutrition, and Herbalism. Bridgette is also an international registered Medical Intuitive. She attended Rudolph Steiner College to learn Biodynamics, Spiritual Sciences, Anthroposophic Medicine, and apprentice on farms, as well as permaculture, stays. Bridgette works with and on humans, animals, and the environment/s in person and online. In the past, Bridgette spent summers in different locations across the USA doing soil restoration, land regeneration, and small to large farm build/s educating as she works with the landowners. She is also a lifetime practitioner of Shamanism and comes from bloodlines of the shaman, medicine people, herbalists, healers, clairvoyants, prophets, and exorcists.

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20 Minutes with Bridgette June 16, 2020~Energy Healing (Exhaustion)

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The Color Red: Red is the color of energy, passion, and action

The color red is a warm and positive color associated with our most physical needs and our will to survive. It exudes a strong and powerful masculine energy.

Red is energizing. It excites the emotions and motivates us to take action.

The Color Gold: The color of wealth, success and status

The color gold is the color of success, achievement, and triumph. Associated with abundance and prosperity, luxury and quality, prestige and sophistication, value, and elegance, the psychology of this color implies affluence, material wealth and extravagance.

The Color Turquoise: Turquoise means open communication and clarity of thought.

The color turquoise helps to open the lines of communication between the heart and the spoken word. It presents a friendly and happy color enjoying life.

In color psychology, turquoise controls and heals the emotions creating emotional balance and stability. In the process, it can appear to be on an emotional roller coaster, up and down, until it balances itself.

The Color Orange: The color of adventure and social communication

The color orange radiates warmth and happiness, combining the physical energy and stimulation of red with the cheerfulness of yellow.

Orange relates to ‘gut reaction’ or our gut instincts, as opposed to the physical reaction of red or the mental reaction of yellow.

Orange offers emotional strength in difficult times. It helps us to bounce back from disappointments and despair, assisting in recovery from grief.

The color psychology of orange is optimistic and uplifting, rejuvenating our spirit.

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20 Minutes with Bridgette May 14, 2020~Spider Medicine

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Spider Power Animal Symbol Of Creation Weaving Our Realities Infinity Balance Past Present And Future

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Grandmother Spider

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Spider Grandmother (Koyangwuti, Kokyangwuti)

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Native American Spider Mythology

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Native American Story ~ Grandmother Spider Steals the Sun

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Spider Woman’s Legacy & Spider Man’s Lore

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Beautiful Spider Web Build Time-lapse | BBC Earth

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World’s Strongest Spider Web

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20 Minutes with Bridgette April 10, 2020~Codependency

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A statement of control and conformity of the early behavior modification that creates codependency tendencies in Americans, “If you cannot say anything nice, do not say anything at all”. This statement among many sets the stage for children not to questions, expanding or confront lies or misinformation, they are afraid to be caught as not nice, being mean and even bullying. The other big issue with such core training in early development is that no one knows what being nice is and what not being nice is, only the person controls the construct of the reality of the child does and it is made up of their own behavior modification done to them.  ~ Bridgette

Codependency is a behavioral condition in a relationship where one person enables another person’s addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement. Among the core characteristics of codependency is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and a sense of identity.

Subliminal and open brainwashing is everywhere~Global Vision YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3n6Kfns_nY

Symptoms of Codependency

The following is a list of symptoms of codependency and being in a codependent relationship. You don’t need to have them all to qualify as codependent.

  • Low self-esteem. Feeling that you’re not good enough or comparing yourself to others are signs of low self-esteem. The tricky thing about self-esteem is that some people think highly of themselves, but it’s only a disguise — they actually feel unlovable or inadequate. Underneath, usually hidden from consciousness, are feelings of shame. Guilt and perfectionism often go along with low self-esteem. If everything is perfect, you don’t feel bad about yourself.
  • People-pleasing.It’s fine to want to please someone you care about, but codependents usually don’t think they have a choice. Saying “No” causes them anxiety. Some codependents have a hard time saying “No” to anyone. They go out of their way and sacrifice their own needs to accommodate other people.
  • Poor boundaries. Boundaries are sort of an imaginary line between you and others. It divides up what’s yours and somebody else’s, and that applies not only to your body, money, and belongings, but also to your feelings, thoughts, and needs. That’s especially where codependents get into trouble. They have blurry or weak boundaries. They feel responsible for other people’s feelings and problems or blame their own on someone else. Some codependents have rigid boundaries. They are closed off and withdrawn, making it hard for other people to get close to them. Sometimes, people flip back and forth between having weak boundaries and having rigid ones.
  • Reactivity. A consequence of poor boundaries is that you react to everyone’s thoughts and feelings. If someone says something you disagree with, you either believe it or become defensive. You absorb their words because there’s no boundary. With a boundary, you’d realize it was just their opinion and not a reflection of you and not feel threatened by disagreements.
  • Caretaking. Another effect of poor boundaries is that if someone else has a problem, you want to help them to the point that you give up yourself. It’s natural to feel empathy and sympathy for someone, but codependents start putting other people ahead of themselves. In fact, they need to help and might feel rejected if another person doesn’t want help. Moreover, they keep trying to help and fix the other person, even when that person clearly isn’t taking their advice.
  • Control. Control helps codependents feel safe and secure. Everyone needs some control over events in their life. You wouldn’t want to live in constant uncertainty and chaos, but for codependents, control limits their ability to take risks and share their feelings. Sometimes they have an addiction that either helps them loosen up, like alcoholism, or helps them hold their feelings down, like workaholism so that they don’t feel out of control. Codependents also need to control those close to them, because they need other people to behave in a certain way to feel okay. In fact, people-pleasing and care-taking can be used to control and manipulate people. Alternatively, codependents are bossy and tell you what you should or shouldn’t do. This is a violation of someone else’s boundary.
  • Dysfunctional communication. Codependents have trouble when it comes to communicating their thoughts, feelings, and needs. Of course, if you don’t know what you think, feel or need, this becomes a problem. Other times, you know, but you won’t own up to your truth. You’re afraid to be truthful because you don’t want to upset someone else. Instead of saying, “I don’t like that,” you might pretend that it’s okay or tell someone what to do. Communication becomes dishonest and confusing when you try to manipulate the other person out of fear.
  • Obsessions. Codependents have a tendency to spend their time thinking about other people or relationships. This is caused by their dependency and anxieties and fears. They can also become obsessed when they think they’ve made or might make a “mistake.”Sometimes you can lapse into fantasy about how you’d like things to be or about someone you love as a way to avoid the pain of the present. This is one way to stay in denial, discussed below, but it keeps you from living your life.
  • Dependency. Codependents need other people to like them to feel okay about themselves. They’re afraid of being rejected or abandoned, even if they can function on their own. Others need always to be in a relationship because they feel depressed or lonely when they’re by themselves for too long. This trait makes it hard for them to end a relationship, even when the relationship is painful or abusive. They end up feeling trapped.
  • Denial. One of the problems people face in getting help for codependency is that they’re in denial about it, meaning that they don’t face their problem. Usually, they think the problem is someone else or the situation. They either keep complaining or trying to fix the other person, or go from one relationship or job to another and never own up the fact that they have a problem. Codependents also deny their feelings and needs. Often, they don’t know what they’re feeling and are instead focused on what others are feeling. The same thing goes for their needs. They pay attention to other people’s needs and not their own. They might be in denial of their need for space and autonomy. Although some codependents seem needy, others act like they’re self-sufficient when it comes to needing help. They won’t reach out and have trouble receiving. They are in denial of their vulnerability and need for love and intimacy.
  • Problems with intimacy. By this, I’m not referring to sex, although sexual dysfunction often is a reflection of an intimacy problem. I’m talking about being open and close with someone in an intimate relationship. Because of the shame and weak boundaries, you might fear that you’ll be judged, rejected, or left. On the other hand, you may fear being smothered in a relationship and losing your autonomy. You might deny your need for closeness and feel that your partner wants too much of your time; your partner complains that you’re unavailable, but he or she is denying his or her need for separateness.
  • Painful emotions. Codependency creates stress and leads to painful emotions. Shame and low self-esteem create anxiety and fear about being judged, rejected or abandoned; making mistakes; being a failure; feeling trapped by being close or being alone. The other symptoms lead to feelings of anger and resentment, depression, hopelessness, and despair. When the feelings are too much, you can feel numb.

Codependent No More (book) https://www.amazon.com/Codependent-No-More-Controlling-Yourself/dp/0894864025

Karma by Rudolph Stiener Volume 1 there are 8 total (here is the first one pdf) https://wn.rsarchive.org/Lectures/GA173/English/RSP1988/KarUn1_index.html

(here is the link to buy book one) https://www.amazon.com/Karma-Untruthfulness-Rudolf-Steiner/dp/185584186X

 

 

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